# Kyle, Luann, Cynthia & More Housewives Spill Behind-the-Scenes Filming Secrets (EXCLUSIVE) **By:** Casey Suglia **Published:** 2026-08-16T13:01:02Z **Source:** [Bravo](https://www.bravotv.com/the-daily-dish/real-housewives-filming-secrets-20th-anniversary-interviews-exclusive) --- Hear Kyle Richards, Luann de Lesseps, Cynthia Bailey and more Bravolebs break the fourth wall on filming Real Housewives. A Trip of a Wifetime! Bravo Debuts Trailer for The Real Housewives Ultimate Girls Trip: Roaring 20th A Trip of a Wifetime! Bravo Debuts Trailer for The Real Housewives Ultimate Girls Trip: Roaring 20th Key Takeaways Several Real Housewives stars explained just how unscripted the franchise is, with memorable moments and quotes often happening spontaneously. Bravolebrities including Porsha Williams, Kyle Richards, Gizelle Bryant, and Luann de Lesseps described the show as life-changing, helping them build brands, launch businesses, expand careers, and gain major public recognition. Real Housewives veterans shared that filming remains emotionally intense and nervewracking despite years on camera, while also reflecting on iconic franchise moments such as Teresa Giudice’s table flip, Tamra Judge’s confrontations, and Cynthia Bailey’s “friendship contract.” The Real Housewives have been surprising viewers for the past 20 years, but according to some of the franchise's most iconic stars, there are actually some equally shocking things they've never revealed about filming the show — until now, that is. How to Watch The Real Housewives Ultimate Girls Trip: Roaring 20th airs on Sundays at 9 p.m. EST. Episodes stream next day on Peacock. Several Bravolebs, including the cast of The Real Housewives Ultimate Girls Trip: Roaring 20th, dished to Bravo Insider about what really goes on behind the scenes.  The Real Housewives of New Jersey's Teresa Giudice, for her part, explained that some of her most iconic lines like "engaged 19 times" and "love, love, love" were off the cuff. As she put it, "Real Housewives is real. Some people think it's scripted, and no, it's not scripted. We're living our real lives." Bravo Shorts Kyle Richards, who has appeared on The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills for 15 consecutive seasons, revealed that although cameras capture a lot of their lives, there is so much that they don't air. "I mean, we are shooting nonstop, and then you watch the show and you're like, 'Oh my gosh, wait a minute — I wasted an outfit," she said with a laugh. "I mean, there's so many moments that aren't captured that I think people would really be surprised by." Although Porsha Williams is used to the cameras documenting her life on The Real Housewives of Atlanta, she admitted to Bravo Insider that she still gets a little "nervous" when it comes to filming. "You would think we just do this and we're used to the cameras, but ten plus years and there are still moments where I'm shaking," she explained. "You get used to them. But there are definitely times where it's like, 'OK, this is a big deal.'" And while Cynthia Bailey is a friend on RHOA Season 17, she admitted to Bravo Insider that appearing on the show in any capacity is still a full-time job. "Like, it's a full-time commitment," she said. "And I will say, as someone who was a Housewife for over a decade, I love that the space of being a friend has been something that I think I'm killing for Season 17." That's not all that was spilled, though. Read on to hear more Bravolebs opening up on filming The Real Housewives. Luann de Lesseps, Teresa Giudice, Vicki Gunvalson, Gizelle Bryant, Kyle Richards, Lisa Barlow and Porsha Williams on The Real Housewives Ultimate Girls Trip: Roaring 20th. Photo: Tommy Garcia/Bravo Porsha Williams, Lisa Barlow and more reveal how Real Housewives has changed their lives  The Real Housewives didn't just change the way that people communicate with each other by quoting the show — the franchise forever changed the lives of those starring on it. Porsha Williams Porsha said that being on RHOA helped her develop her own brand and vision for her life. "I try to represent myself in a certain way," she admitted. "I definitely have built a brand from being on the show. And it's great for keeping you relevant for different things that you're doing. And I have been able to over the years, although I have been a Housewives reality star, I've been able to also branch out and do a lot of other things. So it's a lot of positives along with the drama." RELATED: Bravolebs Tell All on Reunions: Seating Chart Drama, Andy Encounters, Post-Filming Plans & More Lisa Barlow The Real Housewives of Salt Lake City's Lisa Barlow told Bravo Insider that Real Housewives changed her life in "so many different ways," explaining, "I think you get a different view of yourself, [one] that you either saw before and it's magnified, or you just see different things. And it's really cool to see yourself from an outsider's perspective." What's more, "II love capturing my family," Lisa added. "I love that I have my family documented." Gizelle Bryant Like Porsha, The Real Housewives of Potomac's Gizelle Bryant said that being a Real Housewife has had a major impact on her career. "It's given me a platform to do so many things that I've wanted to do and that I've been interested in," she said. "Like, I wrote a book. I had a makeup line. I'm now on a huge podcast, Reasonably Shady. So it's given me a platform to do some other cool things, and it definitely will change the fact that everybody knows who you are. Anonymity is gone." The cast of The Real Housewives Ultimate Girls Trip: Roaring 20th enjoying some time dancing during Episode 1. Luann de Lesseps For The Real Housewives of New York City alum Luann de Lesseps, being a Real Housewife taught her how to embrace her life. "It has taught me to have a sense of humor. And not to take it too seriously — just, like, life. 'Cause life gives you your ups and downs," she stated. "And it's how you roll with it and how you roll with the punches. And God knows for me, I've had a lot of punches." More importantly, "Real Housewives has changed my life really in the best possible way, because I found my love affair with cabaret," Luann concluded. Teresa Giudice Teresa, who has been a housewife since RHONJ Season 1, admitted that she's no longer a stranger to the public. As she put it, "I'm noticed wherever I go. I mean, I was just in Florence, and they're like, 'Teresa!' Like, I take pictures wherever I go." Thankfully, she doesn't mind. "If it wasn't for the fans, we wouldn't be here. So I'm never mean. I never act like I'm too good to take a picture," Teresa said. "I know how excited they get when they see me, so I'm always nice and always take a picture with them." RELATED: Gia, Aesha, Bronwyn & More Reveal Behind-the-Scenes Secrets on Filming Different Bravo Shows Kyle Richards Kyle explained that while being a cast member on RHOBH for 15 seasons exposed her to "a world of being scrutinized and analyzed and dissected and picked apart," it's also "opened doors for me to do the things that I love."  Chief among them? "Creating and producing television and making TV shows," Kyle said. "I started my production company, House of 18, and I have four shows in development there, and it really helped doing the Housewives and being able to open the doors to talk about things that I love." Drew Sidora Drew Sidora told Bravo Insider that being a cast member on RHOA has been "forever life changing" for her. But, the most important thing that it did was introduce her to some very strong women. "I’m so grateful for the platform because I get to meet amazing women, right? Who are all strong, very opinionated bosses," she stated. "I’ve been inspired by so many ladies I’ve gotten to sit at the table with." What to Know About RHUGT: Roaring 20th The Real Housewives Ultimate Girls Trip: Roaring 20th is celebrating the 20th anniversary of the Real Housewives franchise the best way possible: by sending seven of the most iconic Bravolebs on a cross-country road trip. New episodes of RHUGT: Roaring 20th air Sundays at 9 p.m. ET on Bravo and stream the next day on Peacock. As the RHUGT season's nine episodes play out, cast members Lisa Barlow, Gizelle Bryant, Teresa Giudice, Vicki Gunvalson, Luann de Lesseps, Kyle Richards, and Porsha Williams will travel through Orange County, Beverly Hills, Atlanta, Miami, New York City, and the Berkshires, where they'll meet up with dozens of other Real Housewives. Stay tuned for plenty of cross-franchise drama, unexpected friendships, and emotional moments (all of which the RHUGT cast teased in their exclusive sit-down with Bravo Insider). Want to keep the Real Housewives' 20th anniversary fun going? Play The Real Housewives Ultimate Girls Trip Trivia, presented by Bravo Insider, on the Peacock mobile app from now until Sept. 27. A new edition of the game drops every Monday alongside the latest RHUGT episode on Peacock.  Tamra Judge, Jo-Ellen Tibieri, and more reveal their favorite Real Housewives moments With 20 years of Real Housewives, so many people have their favorite moments from the franchises — including the 'Wives themselves. Tamra Judge Tamra Judge admitted that some of her favorite Real Housewives moments come from herself on The Real Housewives of Orange County: "Throwing wine in Jeana [Keough]'s face was pretty iconic. I mean that still comes up. Me screaming 'That's my opinion' to Vicki [Gunvalson]. I mean there's so many, it's so hard to even remember everything. All these years that I've been on this show. I think every year there's an iconic moment."  RELATED: Every Real Housewife Appearing on RHUGT: Roaring 20th (UPDATING) Jo-Ellen Tiberi The Real Housewives of Rhode Island newcomer Jo-Ellen Tiberi loves Teresa's iconic table flip from RHONJ Season 1. "When I think of Real Housewives, I think of Teresa flipping the table. That’s just, like, her iconic [moment]," she stated. "And I’ve met her in person and she’s so lovely." Cynthia Bailey Cynthia noted that she is very fond of her "friendship contract" that she introduced during RHOA Season 3, Episode 11. As she put it, "The friend contract is definitely my contribution to the Housewives world." Bravo Fan Fest is back! This year, the exclusive one-day event takes place on Saturday, October 24 in Charleston, South Carolina. Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen will also be taping shows leading up to the event, on Thursday, Oct. 22, and Friday, Oct. 23. Tickets for Bravo Fan Fest Charleston and for the Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen tapings have sold out. Sign up for Bravo Insider for free to receive information about select Bravo Fan Fest fan opportunities. You can get even more Bravo Fan Fest news by texting “BFF2026” to 917-809-2240. Message and data rates may apply. 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